I have read and re-read James D. MacArthur's article, "The Functional Family," found in February's issue of the Ensign. Why? Because it is positive and pure and true. I really needed this. I will likely always need reminders just like this.
Some highlights include:
In the functional family, parents focus their energy on teaching their children correct principles and allowing them to exercise their agency. We will be more effective the less we act as managers and the more we act as coaches, consultants, and guides.
In the functional family, parents intentionally strengthen their families. This means that you regularly and privately ponder each child's needs and assess them against the overall needs of the family. Intentionally focusing on your family also means you think about the impact of what you say or do not say to your children.
In the functional family, relationships are of supreme importance. By listening carefully and being sensitive to the Spirit, you will be more likely to discern how your children are doing and what their needs are.
In the functional family, parents are active teachers. That means we need to consider what we teach and how we teach.
In the functional family, parents lead by example.
In the functional family, parents teach their children faith in our Heavenly Father and in the Lord Jesus Christ. Remember to be patient with yourself and your family members. Relationships usually improve in stages, not overnight. Strengthening them requires time and effort.
Some highlights include:
In the functional family, parents focus their energy on teaching their children correct principles and allowing them to exercise their agency. We will be more effective the less we act as managers and the more we act as coaches, consultants, and guides.
In the functional family, parents intentionally strengthen their families. This means that you regularly and privately ponder each child's needs and assess them against the overall needs of the family. Intentionally focusing on your family also means you think about the impact of what you say or do not say to your children.
In the functional family, relationships are of supreme importance. By listening carefully and being sensitive to the Spirit, you will be more likely to discern how your children are doing and what their needs are.
In the functional family, parents are active teachers. That means we need to consider what we teach and how we teach.
In the functional family, parents lead by example.
In the functional family, parents teach their children faith in our Heavenly Father and in the Lord Jesus Christ. Remember to be patient with yourself and your family members. Relationships usually improve in stages, not overnight. Strengthening them requires time and effort.
